“I find it comforting to know that her life goes on when I’m not around,” he said. Plus, I’m talking about outside of the bedroom as well. etc.) But many are not.** She’s choosier, and, unlike the 26-year-olds who think they’ll drop dead if they’re not engaged by 27, married at 28, and prego before 30, she’s looking at life a little differently now.(This is code for, “I dread clingy girls who abandon their own ships the moment we have sex, and set up camp on my shore.”) Also, the fact that an older woman has her own money means she likely worked hard to get it. You may buy into the idea that all older women are “desperate.” Granted, some are. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want marriage/kids, because she might—but if so, she’ll be pretty clear about it up front.This is the definition of simplicity to older women.Women over 40 have the gumption to explore and unnerve all that lies within their soul.So if you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. And by that I mean: her own career, her own friends, her own apartment, her own money.A 30-year-old man from Brooklyn told me these factors are what makes older women a turn on. If she hasn’t tried it herself, she’s likely considered it.
And our purpose in life boils down to who you are, how are you doing emotionally, and can you still dance?With age, women — like men — get to understand themselves better.They understand their emotions, and they understand what it is they want out of a relationship.So if you're running into a wall in your current dating life, it might be time to think outside the box (or your age bracket). You don't have to worry about entertaining an older chick 24/7.This means she won't be complaining to you that she's bored all the time, and she won't be in your space begging for attention.